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Introducing a personal lubricant into your sexual routine can be a game changer, whether you’re masturbating or having sex with a partner. But with so many lube options out there, it’s hard to know where to start. When it comes to choosing the best lube, it’s best to think about what you’re going to use the lube for and how you’re going to use it.
Generally, you have three options when it comes to lube types: water-based lube, silicone-based lube, and oil-based lube. Water-based lubricants are the most popular and versatile option, since they’re safe to use with condoms and sex toys. Silicone-based lubes are longer lasting, great for shower sex, and often less sticky, but they can’t be paired with toys made out of silicone since they can break down the silicone material. Oil-based lubes, like coconut oil and petroleum jelly, can be great for massages and external sexual play, but they can’t be used with latex condoms, as they can actually break down the integrity of the latex. (As you can see, there are lots of pros and cons to all three options.)
Once you decide on the type of lube that fits best with your lifestyle, then it’s recommended you look at the lube ingredients. For those of you who experience vaginal dryness or have sensitive skin, it’s best to look for lubes that don’t contain paragons, glycerin, and other harmful chemicals, because they can cause irritation. As a general safety measure, it’s recommended to put a few drops of any lube on your wrist to see how your skin reacts before adding it to your nether regions.
To help you sort through the infinite lube options out there, we’ve compiled a list of the best lubricants on the market — some that you can even buy on Amazon. Just remember that regardless of which lube you go with today, don’t be afraid to experiment with different types and brands to find the best lube for you. After all, with the right lube, you can make your sexual experiences more comfortable, intimate, and deliciously enjoyable.
For more information on lube in general, check out POPSUGAR’s guide on how to use lube.
— Additional reporting by Taylor Andrews