A San Jose family’s triumph over trauma

The tears were eight years in the making.

Live on ESPN last weekend, Almaden Little League softball coach John Drake answered a simple question: What did it mean to watch his daughter, Jayda, throw the final pitch in the game that sent their team to the Little League World Series next week?

Drake started to cry.

“It’s everything,” he said. “It’s everything.”

The interview has been viewed more than 10,000 times on the Little League’s social media pages. But the story behind those tears hasn’t been told.

In 2016, Lottie Drake, John’s wife and Jayda’s mom, was diagnosed with breast cancer. She needed a double mastectomy and heavy chemotherapy.

“It came out of nowhere,” said John, 49, a special education teacher at a San Jose middle school. “It just rocked our family. The kids were so young.”

Jayda was 4, Joelle was 8 and Jordyn was 13. Tommy was a newborn.

There was so much to do every day. Taking the kids to school. Cooking dinner. Helping them with their homework. One of the girls has cerebral palsy. Another has a severe dairy allergy. And there was a newborn baby on top of it all.

“I didn’t realize how much stuff my wife did for the family,” John said. When he saw all that would need to be done… “I’m like, ‘What? She did all this? Are you serious?’”

Lottie, who had always taken care of everything, suddenly needed people to take care of her.

“That’s a hard thing that I had to learn through my treatment,” said Lottie, 48, a human resources professional and talent agent. “You have to take help sometimes. You can’t do it all.”

Folks at Almaden Little League sprung into action.

Almaden Little League, also known as the Almaden Lightning, huddle at the end of practice with their coach John Drake, far right, at Bret Harte Middle School in San Jose, Calif., on Monday, July 31, 2023. The Northern California champion is heading to Little League Softball World Series in Greenville, North Carolina. (Nhat V. Meyer/Bay Area News Group)
Almaden Little League, also known as the Almaden Lightning, huddle at the end of practice with their coach John Drake, far right, at Bret Harte Middle School in San Jose, Calif., on Monday, July 31, 2023. The Northern California champion is heading to Little League Softball World Series in Greenville, North Carolina. (Nhat V. Meyer/Bay Area News Group) 

“It was like having a family member get sick,” said Brian Baggott, the former president of the Almaden girls’ softball program. “It was crushing to everybody. John is one of the most beloved coaches around.”

Baggott and some folks involved with the town softball program came together with a plan. They created a schedule of Lottie’s chores and then took turns filling shifts, getting the kids to school, bringing meals to the house, helping out in any way possible.

“We didn’t have to ask for anything — they just dropped what they were doing and built this support system around us,” Lottie said.

Baggott helped organize regular fundraisers at Little League events to raise money for the family. The girls softball players wore pink socks to raise breast cancer awareness. And Lottie remembers one event in particular, a movie night at the Almaden Community Center, that still makes her emotional when she thinks about it.

Baggott rented a large room to show a movie to the kids in town, hoping to attract families who could provide a donation.

More than 200 people showed up.

“Every kid there made a sign and it was hard to look around and realize, ‘This is for me and my family,’” Lottie said. “I was there physically, but I couldn’t even take it all in and give the proper thanks.”

The tears last Sunday were eight years in the making, the team two fewer. Six years ago, when Jayda began playing softball and formed close bonds with a few girls on the team, John saw something special happening.

“The kids liked each other, the parents were cool, so we were like, ‘It would be cool if we can keep them together for a while,’” John said.

That wasn’t a problem when the girls were 6 years old, but once they got to be 10 and softball became more competitive, other parents began to protest, saying it wasn’t fair to have so many talented players on one team.

John was able to keep the team together and with a standout pitching trio — Jayda, Maya Parada and Auzerais Garibaldi-Munoz — the Lightning won their local tournaments and advanced all the way to the Little League West regionals.

Once there they lost their opening game, 11-4, to Southern California and were relegated to the elimination bracket. A loss would end their season.

But they came from behind to beat Utah, 5-4, then stormed past Nevada and Arizona to reach the championship game, again against Southern California.

This time, John made a change in his pitching rotation. He replaced Jayda as the starting pitcher, putting her at shortstop, and used Parada as his No. 1 pitcher.

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